Divorce Information Center
The first decision you have to make when you have decided to get a divorce is who will represent you. You might think you can get by with no attorney; you might figure that you and your spouse are still reasonable people and you can reach your own conclusions as to how property should be divided. The problem is that most people do not understand all of the issues that need to be addressed as part of the divorce. Other people make the mistake of thinking all divorce attorneys are the same and that the same lawyer who handled the divorce for their coworker’s son or daughter is the right lawyer to handle their own divorce. Some divorces are more complicated than others, and you need an attorney who has the experience to see you through all the issues.
At Bochte & Kuzniar, P.C., we have been handling divorces for years. We understand the problems that arise in the complicated cases and we are not afraid to make new law if that is what it will take. Our clients have come to us with complex issues to be resolved including
- Issues governed by unsettled areas of law
- Disputes over removal of children from this jurisdiction, such as when a parent remarries or takes a new job
- Problems with differing valuation methods for marital property that require a determination of which method is more accurate or equitable
- How to accomplish service of process on a spouse that is avoiding it
- Obtaining injunctive relief to put a stop to physical abuse or improper transfers of assets.
Divorce Overview - The Basics
Contemplating divorce is difficult. Whether or not you are sure you want to end your marriage, it helps to learn the basics of divorce law.
Should you conclude that divorce is necessary, it is important to seek the assistance of an experienced family law attorney.
A divorce is a judicial decree by which a valid marriage is dissolved. From a legal standpoint, the divorce process will divide the couple’s assets and debts; determine the future care and custody of their children; and give each person the legal right to marry someone else.
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Division of Property
When a couple has little or no marital property, no children and no disagreement on spousal maintenance/alimony, their divorce usually goes very quickly. Most couples, however, have numerous issues to work out during the divorce process. These issues may involve children or significant marital property: personal property, real estate, a family business, large or concealed debts, trusts, real property in other states, joint and separate accounts, investments, insurance, pensions and other assets. In any divorce, especially one involving complex property matters, an experienced family law attorney can offer valuable guidance and advocacy.
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Questions to Ask During Divorce
Whether to end your marriage is one of the most important and difficult decisions you will ever encounter. While this is an emotional matter, it is important to approach certain aspects of it with an analytical perspective. This is a decision that should take into account numerous issues. Once you review the following list of questions, you may reconsider your goals — or you may be better prepared to move forward while working with an attorney. Contact an experienced family law attorney to help you along the journey.
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Dealing with Divorce
For some, divorce may feel like a liberating new beginning. For most, however, it is not so straightforward. The end of a relationship as important as a marriage brings numerous difficult emotions. Indeed, recovering from a divorce is similar to the grieving process one experiences when a loved one dies. The process typically consists of five stages: shock and denial; anger; ambivalence; depression; and recovery. Not everyone experiences these emotions in the same way or in the same order. You may move in and out of a phase more than once, even experiencing more than one phase at a time. It is a difficult and time-consuming process. Family counselors advise that it may take as long as one or two years to truly recover.
Understanding the process and the feelings you may experience will help you to grieve the relationship. It is important to allow yourself the time you need to recover from the traumatic experience of ending a marriage so that you can move on to the next phase of your life. An experienced family law attorney can provide invaluable advice and support throughout the divorce process.
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An Amicable Divorce
Divorce is one of the most emotional experiences you will ever face. The decision to end a marriage is not an easy one, and often it is accompanied by anger, fear and resentment. The negative emotions associated with divorce are responsible for more than hurt feelings; they affect the legal process and its outcome. Most importantly, if children are involved, they can be deeply distressed. It is in your family's interest to approach divorce from an amicable perspective; this can spare you a great deal of time, money and heartache. An experienced family law attorney can help you deal with your situation clearly and objectively.
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